Are you a modern woman and would you like to be able to find a partner who is up to the task? How to find love but also seduce the people who deserve you and avoid fleeting relationships? How should women behave to seduce without appearing too direct?
You are a young woman, aged 25 to 45 and with a real desire to live your professional career to the full? Dynamic and ambitious in nature, you do not plan to end up housewife or worse, mother and invisible wife for her husband?
Whether you are a single bachelor, a divorced mother or a woman subscribed to ephemeral relationships, I understand and perceive your sadness at the lack of possibilities available to you. It is never easy to find your other half and to live a sincere love, fulfilling but especially in the long term.
Since 2007, I have had the good fortune to accompany thousands of women and the majority have told me of their disappointments when it came to meeting a stable, serious and capable of really to commit. Do you also find that the male gender lacks character and perspective when it comes to your emancipation? Times are changing and not all men are able to assimilate it correctly!
However, the majority of my coaches find Love in the space of about a quarter, simply by observing differently the seduction and relationships they have with men who are likely to please them. I present in this article my different tips so that you can find great love while keeping your going of modern woman and full of life!
Before looking for love, fixate on happiness! The main problem in the search for a soul mate and which I have noticed over time is common to all women, is your desire to find perfect love from the start of a history. You constantly have your list of selection criteria in hand and are always looking for the right man. The slightest little defect is unacceptable, so you don’t bother going further, which is really unfortunate.
However, the best way to seduce is to let go and learn to discover the other in his intimacy (attention, nothing to do with the side sexual!) . The risk is that you will only be seduced by Don Juan or Casanova playing a role for the sole purpose of achieving their goals and sleeping with you. Recently I wrote an article on this subject so that women avoid assholes in love !
To combat this problem, I invite you to forget your search for a soul mate and to simply live your daily life as you see fit to be happy. On the other hand, I force you to start discussions with a maximum of people around you to find common points and to have enriching exchanges. This is how you can forget to be constantly in the role of the “rare pearl hunter” and that you will seduce the man who will really make you vibrate much more easily and naturally.
Start by making room for a man in your life!
Generally, if you read my website, it is because you have already tried many means to find Love. Whether dating sites, speeddatings, outings on OVS or any other actions.
So, I imagine that you have failed every time in your quest for love ?
However, do not panic, you are absolutely not irretrievable. Far from there. On the other hand, you need a good kick in the buttocks because you often have an ego problem! Perfectly ladies … You want to take everything in hand and systematically control everything and this reaction scares men. To be happy in love you have to let go.
Indeed, I realized that the women whom I advise during coaching consultation left no place in their life to a man who nevertheless possesses all the characteristics to seduce them.
If you show him that you don’t need him, how could he want to stay on your arm? He will feel a strong feeling of inferiority and will prefer to flee rather than feel degraded every time because he will be unable to find his place.
Today, you must avoid trying every conceivable means to meet men, but rather start telling yourself that you must develop your seduction. In particular by considering activities to set up that you would like to live with a man you have just met and without wanting to have control over everything.
Seduction is very important and it will allow you not to obsess over the need to be in a relationship but simply to share things in pairs and to find a benefit. This is how you can better discover men and make the right choice.
Stop finding excuses!
You are an active woman and recognized for your ability to manage all of your daily life. But in Love, I know that you already have more than a hundred excuses to justify your mistakes and always blame the men you have met. You must overcome this phenomenon by changing your habits! By force it is necessary nevertheless to wonder…
Are you as perfect as you think? Do you still have some efforts to make?
Besides, your favorite excuse is “I’m running out of time” … In line with the previous paragraph, if you really want to be happy in Love then you will have to make an effort!
I invite you to forget the excuses to try to put into practice the actions that I quote throughout this article. I must recognize that these are simple actions at the moment because it is difficult to set goals without a personalized study, but if you want to go even further, you can contact me so that we take the time to find individual solutions.
Forget the vision of the ideal couple and take the time to discover the men you meet by targeting just one goal: to take advantage of the present moment.
I will conclude with an experience I had a few months ago now. I went to a personal development seminar in London which was organized by Anthony ROBBINS, considered the number one personal development coach in the world. Several people took the floor, about ten modern women in total grabbed the microphone to talk about their lives, and 7 of them spoke and talked about the lack of love among the biggest problem in their life.
do you realize? 70% of modern women in the room considered themselves unhappy in love . Sad observation for a society that constantly evokes happiness.
They had everything to be happy on a daily basis, but the most important thing was missing: the presence of a man. This may also be your case and in these conditions, it is necessary to invest yourself fully in order to find the rare pearl (and not Prince Charming) and considerably increase your level of happiness !
How to be happy in Love?
During my experience as seduction coach for men and women, I analyzed all of the problems encountered by singles. I concluded that socializing to find great love is an excellent technique.
For example for you ladies, you are in search of an immediate perfection which unfortunately is not very present. Indeed, meeting Love is being able to cut the rough diamond of your relationship in order to derive a growing fulfillment over time.
Precisely, socialization will allow you to take your time before drawing conclusions from an encounter because you will meet a man who will be natural and will present his true face to you!
If you don’t change anything, your life will always run out of spice.